Dating smart men
I don’t know what is going on and why I’m lacking luck in finding Mr. I am educated, refined, and a self made millionaire by age 34. Many men, women, elderly, and children of all ages have told me so.
People also told me that I am one of nicest and sweetest people they have ever met.
Let’s face it, we all want a great partner but if we aren’t wonderful ourselves that aspiration is simply unrealistic. I am not your past boyfriends, I am not your future boyfriend, I am the present.
The reality of being picky in today’s dating market is that; many people just can’t afford to be if they contribute less value than who they desire. We all have family issues, money issues, school issues, work issues, etc., but beyond that I don’t have time for baby mamas, baby daddies, children, and all other nonsense. By the way if you have any of the latter, I’m not interested. I’m sick and tired of meeting women who have preconceived notions and stereotypes about black men.
In fact, all of my female friends comment on what a great catch I am. Women reading this may feel bad for him, yet also want to him to know that it’s not BECAUSE he’s nice that he’s not attracting women. It’s because he constantly seeks the approval of others. It’s because he sacrifices his personal power to be conciliatory. These traits sometimes come with a significant downside that is painful to acknowledge. The flip side of being charismatic is being self-centered.
These are common attributes of nice guys, yet nice guys think that women don’t like nice guys BECAUSE they’re nice. Again, not EVERY person who is bright is opinionated, and not EVERY person who is funny is sarcastic.
This is a MAN telling you what men are looking for. Do you think this woman exist or are these qualities unrealistic?Even though I am 36, most of the people I meet would think that I am only 26.Unfortunately, I have been through all kinds of online dates in the last two and a half years.If you've been frustrated and confused about why your relationships aren't working the way you want them to - this book will change your love life.Coming from a man who's had so much experience helping women in real life, who has so many success stories in his track record and has a distinctly masculine point of view is just so incredibly valuable.